Self Improvement 👍

Change Priorities: How to increase peace of mind👉

1. When I graduated from school, my mind was full of chaos. Confusion about future matters. The chaos was created because of feelings of doubt and worry. Doubt and worry about things in the future. Doubtful and worried about the choice of my next step. Doubt and worry that I will not be able to make my parents happy. At that time, I thought about many things. Starting to think about whether I should continue to a higher level of education or whether I decided to start a professional path, namely looking for a job. At that time I was nervous and worried about myself. My family members helped me reduce those doubts and worries. They gave me lots of advice about the meaning of life and advised me that I should live based on education. They think education is everything and the most important in life. They make an analogy, the journey of life to achieve a good education is like a sick person who hopes to get well and needs medicine. The journey is painful. You feel suffering. But the doctor requires you to take medicine so that you recover quickly. The same goes for educational journeys. You need to absorb a lot of knowledge so that your brain becomes open. So that you become a knowledgeable person. That you may be wise to yourselves. The bitterness that occurred during that suffering will give you “light”. Your consistency in taking medicine will eventually make you heal. Just like the journey of life to achieve a good education. Your consistency in studying, being patient, and solving each problem one by one, in the end, you are accomplished, and your knowledge has increased and becomes wise. 2. In this article, I want to talk about changing priorities: how to increase peace of mind. Priorities are about how your brain works in making important choices in life. Now I ask myself, what are the priorities in my life? I answered one night is about “the happiness of parents”. I want to make my parents happy. I want to make them calm, peaceful, and joyful at the end of their lives. I want to make them happy. so, for now, a word about prioritizing for myself is about achieving parental happiness. In the past, I had too many priorities. I want a, I want b, and I want bla bla bla. I’m not focused on one thing. To be honest, I’m not someone who multitasks. I can’t do many things at the same time. At work, I’m more comfortable and happy to do one thing at a time and the results are good or let’s say the maximum than I do many things but the results are not good. 3. At that time I had too many priorities. My mind is divided on many things. Once upon a time, I went to the beach, brought my cute dog, and I did some reflection. Why do I think too much about things that don’t matter to improve the quality of my life? Why don’t I have important priorities in life? The reflection gave a positive answer to how to improve the quality of my life. From me thinking too much about many things and many priorities, now I only focus on one priority, namely making my parents happy. I’m sure, someone who is oriented towards the happiness of parents is something that can give peace of mind. When you think about how to make your parents happy, then you will work hard, you will do positive things in your life, and you will emphasize your empathy as a human being to do good to anyone you meet. That’s how I feel now. 4. Right now I’m happy with myself. I’m calm in my mind. I don’t feel the chaos anymore in my head. I can make peace with myself. I started to change my priorities to the things that make me happy. I started to change my priorities to positive things, how to please my parents. my father and my mother. I started writing to balance all the chaos in my heart and mind. I started reading, to increase my knowledge about various things. I started listening to podcasts, to experience the wonders of human conversation. and other good things. Right now I’m more calm and peaceful. 5. In this writing, I want to give you advice, now, you must be able to determine what priorities you want in your life. You have to be able to determine what priorities make you happy and keep you away from all the chaos of the world. And you must be able to change priorities that are less productive, into goal-oriented priorities so that you can be on the track on the path of truth in your life. Remember, right now the world is very chaotic. Social media makes us humans into individuals who are not empathetic. Currently, Humans assume opinions are most important rather than empirical evidence. They are more concerned with virality than the real truth. So, you have to be able to protect yourself from these things. You have to protect yourself from the threat of things that will bring you to a point of chaos. You have to be more careful on the way through life. When you are aware of this, believe me, you will be calm, happy, peaceful, joyful, and grateful for the things that have happened in your life. Remind your friends about this. Share with them. let’s together make this world full of chaos a world that is calm and peaceful and a world that loves one another based on humanity.