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Nov 3, 2023

Men VS Women

The Annoying Reason Men Can Only Do One Thing At A Time Men and women are supposed to be equal right? Well, for certain things yes. For example, equal pay, equal rights, etc. But men's and women's brains are not the same. Science can actually explain the reasons men and women do the things they do. Research shows that the female brain operates differently than the male brain. Each has been trained by millions of years of evolution. This is the source of many of the problems and miscommunication between the sexes.

The difference between a man's brain and a woman's brain Women are multi-taskers and often cannot understand why men can seem to only do one thing at a time. My goodness, a woman can drive a car while putting on her make-up and talking on her hands-free phone, but a man will miss his exit on the freeway because his wife was talking to him. That is because the male brain is compartmentalized and specialized to concentrate on one specific task at once. It may seem limiting to a woman, but it enables a man to become a specialist in one subject. Now, there is evidence that multitasking can lead to a scattered mind, a lack of focus and, ultimately, more stress in your life. In that sense, the single-minded focus many men display could be considered a healthy approach to getting things done. On the other hand, a woman's ability to juggle everything on her daily to-do list is basically a superpower.

How a woman uses her brain A woman uses both sides of her brain, which enables her to multitrack many activities. In prehistoric times, men were responsible for hunting and bringing home food. They needed skills to hone in on one target. The traditional mythology says women were home defending the nest and needed to perform several activities simultaneously with a wide peripheral vision to monitor their surroundings. No matter what actually went on around the communal fire during the Neolithic age, women still bear more than their share of work around the house. Statistics from Pew Research revealed that in 2020, only 38 percent of women surveyed said they were satisfied with the division of labor at home. Among men, 55 percent were satisfied with that. The lopsided math illustrates the need for women to multitask — and is an indication that it's not all that fun or rewarding.

Why women can't stop talking Women, on average, talk more than men because talking for women isn’t the same as it is for men. It’s not that men don’t talk much. They do, but only about a few things. For men, talking is a means to communicate facts and information. They can go on and on when they’re describing how a machine works or how they found the fastest route to arrive at the current destination. They can go on, and on while talking about a subject they’re passionate about. For women, talking is a means to bond and build relationships with people. They can go on and on about their day-to-day problems and discuss their relationships.  Talking helps women to cope with stress. To feel better, the average woman would rather talk about her problems for half an hour than receive solutions within five minutes. Two men who’re strangers to each other rarely bond when they’re traveling on a plane, bus, or train. On the other hand, two women who don’t know each other are likely to bond while traveling together and may share the most intimate details about themselves and their relationships with each other. This is why you’ll find women dominating professions where it is required to build relationships with people via talking such as counseling, teaching, nursing, and customer service.

How The Brains Work Men's brain has fewer connecting fibres between the left and right hemispheres, and a more compartmentalised. The woman brain is configured for multi-tasking performance. She can do several unrelated things at the same time and her brain is never disengaged, it's always active.

1. Their brains are hardwired that way This is complete science. And what science says is that women are hardwired to be more talkative from the womb. Before we’re even out in this world, our brains are programmed to be more talkative. When it comes to the makeup of their brains, women have something that can be referred to as an 8 lane interstate system that processes emotion, whereas men have something closer to a backcountry road. This means women are naturally more emotional and that makes them much more talkative.

2. They are more expressive Women are just more expressive in general, too. While men tend to keep to themselves and have their emotions hidden inside, women let them out and aren’t afraid to show them. This means no matter what a woman is feeling, she’s more likely to express it. And since a human’s biggest way of expressing themselves is through speech, it definitely makes sense that this is why women talk so much.

3. . They are trying to get men to talk The thing about the differences in men and women is that we don’t always understand each other. For that reason, women will talk and talk until they get a guy to say something. We want men to open up and express themselves the way we do. And some women can’t accept that that will just never happen. Therefore, those women will continue talking just to see if a guy will find interest in a particular topic and actually start speaking.

4. We externally process information Men process their emotions and information within their own head. That’s why us women think guys don’t have many emotions. It’s not that they don’t, it’s just that they process them internally. Women, on the other hand, prefer to process their feelings and information outside of their minds. This leads to women talking a lot more than men do in order to make sense of certain things.

5. Because we’re trying to get men to listen If you want your woman to stop talking so much, then you should listen to her better. Because one of the main reasons women talk so much is to get a man to listen to them! When we feel like a guy isn’t listening to what we have to say, we’ll just keep saying it in different ways until we think he’s heard it. So if you just listen, women will shut up!

6. We just want to share our life with you This is a huge reason we talk so much – especially when it’s with our significant others. We just want to share our life with you and bring you into our inner emotions. To do this, we often have to talk a lot just to let you know what’s going on and how our life is. So, don’t get annoyed with this reason why women talk.

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