Feb 3, 2024
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THE 3 TYPES OF PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE:
1. The Leaf people
2. The Branch people
3. The Root people
LEAF PEOPLE:
These are people who come into your life just for a season. You can't depend on them because they are weak. They only come to take what they want, but if the wind comes they will leave.
You need to be careful of these people because they love you when things are okay, but when the wind comes they will leave you
BRANCH PEOPLE:
They are strong, but you need to be careful with them too. They break away when life becomes tough and they can't handle too much weight. They may stay with you in some seasons, but they will go when it becomes harder
ROOT PEOPLE: These people are very important because they don't do things to be seen. They are supportive even if you go through a difficult time they will water you and they are not moved by your position they just love you like that ...
It's not all people you meet or are your friends, that will stay with you.
Only the root type of people will stay no matter the season.
The right one will love you.
Finding someone who genuinely cares about you and your well-being is extremely hard to find this day and age.
Time and time again I hear about someone walking away because things became "too hard"
You deserve someone who fights for you when things get difficult, and they aren't gonna be like "you know what? it's over" and throw everything away.
If that person really values you, there's no such thing as you being "too complicated".
There's no such thing as you being "too crazy".
There's no such thing as you being "too much".
The right person will love you unconditionally and they will be willing to make it work, despite what the obstacle is and whatever the problem may be, because losing you is never an option.
No argument is going to push them away far enough, no fight is going to cause them to lose feelings, and no disagreement is going to make them drift away from you.
No matter how bad things get, they would never let it outweigh how much he or she cares about you.
No matter how dysfunctional things become, they would never let it take away the value of your relationship with them.
Take my advice and remember. —A person who truly values you, would never put themselves in a position to lose you.
—Cody Bret,
Being labeled as too sensitive can really bring you down. It makes you feel as if there's a fault in the way you perceive and process your emotions. But remember this: Your sensitivity is not a defect; it's a strength. It allows you to experience the world in vibrant colors, to empathize deeply with others, and to appreciate the subtle nuances of life. Your sensitivity is a gift, enabling you to connect with others on a profound level and to create meaningful relationships. Embrace this unique aspect of yourself. It's a quality that makes you compassionate, understanding, and uniquely equipped to bring positive change to the world. Hold onto this thought: In a world that often values toughness, your sensitivity is a beacon of hope and a source of true strength.
THREE STAGES OF A RELATIONSHIP
1. The Butterfly Stage
This is when your admiration for this person sky rockets. You only see the good, even their flaws seems like no big deal to you.
It's the "love is blind" stage..
2) The Knowledge Stage
This is when the butterflies have died and turned to worms, it's the rude shock stage, the "I never knew you could do this" stage... This is when all about the person, the little details that matter come to the fore. You now see Dracula in this person.
3) The Understanding Stage
At this stage you weigh everything, the good, the bad and the ugly and make your decision
You can now decide if you want to be with this person or not, based on the facts before you.
This stage takes time and time doesn't mean 80 years...
Remember, time doesn't change anything, it reveals what changed. At this stage it's safer to make your decision... However, whether you started a relationship with butterfly or not,
What will determine the success of your relationship are Commitment, contentment and communication. Attraction may start off a RELATIONSHIP; Purpose sustains it and Value progresses it.
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