CONFESSIONS📜

Confession #1: Having a girl bestfriend Confession #2: She misses him but doesn't want a comeback Confession #3: A woman already knows that a relationship is going to end

SAD Confessions #1 Title: A girl best friend? ————————————— Do you think that a guy can have a girl best friend (in which their relationship is strictly platonic, and friendly only) and a girlfriend? Some background, this girl best friend is one of his ex. We both like each other and want to date but there's one thing that bothers me. He talks a lot about his girl best friend and said that she's the only person that he calls that. No one else. I always believed that your girlfriend should be your girl best friend? but I understand that this girl is someone he really values as a friend, especially as he has problems making friends due to his introvert nature so I won't make him choose between me and him but at times I just can't help but feel jealous even though I feel like I shouldn't be. His previous relationship with (let's just call her X) was constantly on and off as he kept having resurfacing feelings for the girl best friend and ended things with X as he ended up having a large sexual attraction to the girl best friend and wanted to be fwb with her. This was a few months ago but no, he reassures me that their friendship is strictly friendship only now and nothing else. Maybe it's my insecurities coming out but I'm scared he's going to leave me for her etc. SAD, I just want to know if you can truly be just friends with an ex? (as they were best friends before they dated) And should I really pursue this relationship? I really do like him but I'm not sure what to do. ————————————— - A confused girl

SAD Confessions #2 Title: i miss you, but i don't want you anymore. ————————————— i know you follow this page so when you look at this, i hope that you'll know who i am and who this applies to. it took me a while to muster up to courage to finally realized that i never loved you at all. i think, the reason why i cried when we broke up isn't because i lost that love but because you broke my trust. i trusted you with my heart, that you wouldn't be so crass with it but that wasn't what happened. i gave you everything a guy could ever want; i wasn't a perfect girlfriend but i was damn close and you know it. but because you're so greedy for more, you were willing to hurt me. so now that i'm finally healed, i realized that you were the one who wasn't worthy of me. of what i brought to the table. of my love. so this is my last goodbye, please don't ever reach out to me because i don't want to hear from you. i miss the good times we had, but i don't want you anymore. ————————————— - your bubs

SAD Confessions #3 Title: Bro wtf ————————————— I had a talk with my bros the other day about relationships and what not. The topic of break ups came up and one of my friend said that his girlfriend said that apparently when a woman breaks up or is broken up, they knew way before that it was over before it is actually over. wtf?? is this actually a legit thing?? if it is, why is it a thing? Why don't women speak up about their feelings? ————————————— - smh

SAD Confessions #4 Title: Ghost from the Past ————————————— I have been reading a lot lately about cheating and I want to ask if anyone experienced Post Infidelity Stress Disorder (PISD) cause I recently had one ahnd it just kills me inside. I was cheated on almost a year ago but I have moved on. I’m much happier with who I am and what I have learned. But it still comes as a shock when I got triggered by PISD. I felt like the world was crumbling around me. How do you deal with it personally? ————————————— - Stressful Boi 88

SAD Confessions #5 Title: Conflicted ————————————— What do you do when you’re still really good friends with your exes but your SO doesn’t like you hanging out with them? My ex really is my ex and we have never crossed the line and never will. And I’ve tried telling the truth to my SO that I’m hanging out with them and we argue every time I tell him. Atm I don’t tell my SO when I meet them so is it lying? I don’t know what to do :/ ————————————— - This old duck needs help

SAD Confessions #6 Title: I feel like a H*e ————————————— My boyfriend and I recently broke up it’s been over a month since he officially broke up but we have seen each other on and off and still talked to each other like kind of normal. However, since we are broken up technically I have talked to two guys who have made advances and asked me to hook up. I am interested in meeting up with one of them but I can’t help but feel morally wrong because I am still in touch with my ex boyfriend although I have made it clear we are not together. Will meeting up with the guy make me a bad person or a h*e? ————————————— - I need advice

Confession #7 Male India Hi, how are you everyone , i am from india..! To whom you call dhotis😅😂....! Its ok..! I want to tell uh my story ,i am doing first time this and not good much in english... So forgive me if i say anything wrong..! I met one nepalis girl in job then we start talking and slowly slowly we love each other then we meet outside 2,3 times in a week ...! She tell me about her life , like she love someone else before me he ignore her .in every time.. And she having relation with him from last 5 years .. And her engagement already done , she told me whole truth , rather then this ,don't know why we love each other that much..! After that she told me one day that my family hate indians i said why because from my opinion all are same , she said don't know but they hate.. I said if your family not agree in future then don't hurt them just do same what they want, she also want the same ... And then she move with him ......now we talk sometime but not like earlier 🙁 but i love her so much ..... I am crazy for her now aswell don't know why....! I am not saying she betray me because she tell me firstly whole truth ....ok fine ...! But having one question why Nepalis people hate indians or indian hate nepalis all are same there are some bad people in india and in nepal as well but that means not all people same ...., so you all know what i mean.....!

Confession #8 I love a woman who is almost 17-18 older than me,I have a habit of drinking and tried quitting it many times but unfortunately failed.I'm 30 and she is almost 47,she has two sons,elder one is 7-8 years younger to me,She is not living with her husband since 11 years,we both love each other,I don't consider love as true or false as love is love it can't false or true,either you love someone or you don't. My problems are two-first society never gonna accept this relation,hell with the society but our parents specially my parents and her son's are not gonna accept this and the other fact is you can't make them understand,see by arguments justifying this relation is quite tough and we both know it. We wanna live together and wanna live peacefully. Second problem is alcohol,I know I can control it over the time.I know right know am stressed and depressed so controlling it is quite tough but I can handle it on my own. Now here comes the major issue too live together as we are adults and we are mature so we can't ran away leaving our families. I need some suggestions,what can be done on it.There may be some grammatical mistakes and may be there ares some spelling mistakes as am not oxford student so focus on the story not on my English.

#c7810 21, Female USA You all may have read kind of same story many times but till want to share my story because This is the best way to share somethings which we can’t share everywhere.. I’m a divorcee. I don’t have any awkward to say this but sometime this society makes me so much awkward.. I got married when i was only 17 and half. And after marriage we came in United States by dv visa.. I was the one of who got dv and the main reason of marriage in early age was I didn’t have anyone else in state. But after 9 months of coming state I left him. Because I found him to cheating with me. I found that he had a girlfriend from long time. But I was supposed to forgive him if he wanted to continue new life with me. But when I asked him he directly said he got married with me only because of green card. I was in so much depressing for few weeks but after that I made decision myself not to stay with him. And I talked with my parents and told them everything I’m glad that my parents give support to me in every step and got divorce. Now it’s been almost 20 months that I have started to live with friends. Now i have totally moved on. I think that was my bad dream. And now I want to start my new life. I want to be like a normal girl. But because of being divorce its difficult. Manche haru ko herne najar nai naramro cha. Divorcee vanda bitikai sabai Nepali manche haru arkai najar le hercha.. Kati Jana nepali le ta room sharing ma basna pani didaina.. Pahila auta kt sathi pani malie vane pachi room chodera gako thiyo. Tyahi darle Ahile kasailai vaneko chaina. Now I want to make bf but my past is always their to close my door And if someone come in my life their only intention is to get advantage from me. I m really disapointed. Why a divorce women are not adjusted in our society? Why always a women have to suffer? And sorry for my bad English... I know I can’t speak good English but wanted to try..