BOOKS

I Was Dumb As Hell But These 3 Books Made Me Emotionally Strong👇 When I say I was dumb as hell, I mean it. Basically, I had two problems that were creating 1000 other problems in my life and those 2 were, 1. Anyone could make a fool out of me 2. I wasn’t emotionally strong enough to lead my thoughts and thus actions. The world that we have created is hell for those who are not aware of their emotions because people might take advantage of you. Besides, in any adverse situation, you would not be able to think clearly if you don’t know what you stand for and who you truly are. Until I read these 3 books, I had a belief that thoughts are the primary source of actions because common man, first we think then we take action on that, right? No! First we build emotions then those emotions are turned into thoughts and thoughts into action. This is why, ‘people who are not emotionally strong, they can’t take informed decision and become successful’ Let’s see what are the 3 books that pulled me out of the mud and made me strong enough to control myself, and not get controlled by others’ 3 Books To Make You Emotionally Strong👉

1. The Power Of Now: If I could, I would have gifted this one book to the entire universe, yes I love this book that much👉

We humans have a tendency to either live in the past or in the future which means we skip the present moment. And this is the reason why we are always suffering. We regret our past actions or worry about our future while not caring about the NOW until your present moment becomes past as well. “The moment you realize you are not present, you are present. Whenever you are able to observe your mind, you are no longer trapped in it. Another factor has come in, something that is not of the mind: the witnessing presence.” I know that you must have heard about all these lectures thousands of times from people and books but The Power Of Now is a different book that digs deeper into the human mind to analyze how we are becoming living robots. “Emotions arise in the place where your mind and body meet” The Power Of NOW taught me that emotions are the key to thoughts and actions. And the person who is not aware of his emotions will always end up in misery. While all those typical nonfiction books talk about ‘you are your thoughts’, The Power Of NOW claims that you are neither your thoughts, nor mind. You are way beyond what you can imagine. If you are suffering from depression, anxiety, negative thoughts or any other worldly problem, The Power Of NOW is the only solution you will ever need, I bet!

2. The Laws Of Human Nature: Have you ever thought why some people are always hungry for attention? Well, on an honest note, we all crave attention. Although, some people may argue on that but this is the reality. However, there are some people who go crazy if they don’t get a definite amount of attention and such a person can go to any extent to steal your attention. “What if we could find out what causes us to lie about who we are, or to inadvertently push people away?” The law of human nature is one such book that introduces us with various kinds of personalities and how different types of human nature takes over a person to make him/her do surprising things. While I was reading this book, in some examples, I could either see my reflection while in other examples, I could see why other people around me behave the way they do.👉

3. The Rudest Book Ever: Okay, be very honest, no cheating. Have you ever made imaginary scenarios where you are the best person, you have everything you ever wanted, you are behaving like a Queen/King while your crush is crushing on you? Sure, you did. This is not a normal thing. It’s a mind-made trap that is designed by your ego and false self just to make you feel good. Because obviously, after any perfect imagination, life seems beautiful while in reality it sucks. Your big-fat ego doesn’t want you to acknowledge the reality and that is why, it plays with your head. Above all, when your imagination doesn’t come true (that is 99.99% times), it hurts, doesn’t it?

The Rudest Book Ever, as the name itself suggests is a book on how you can get out of your head, start working hard in real life, stop impressing people, stop getting influenced by others opinion and how to feel fulfilled with what you already have. I would end it in author’s words, “If you need somebody else to tell you that you are special, then you have not done anything to earn it in your own mind.”

These are 3 books that had the greatest impact on me while I was all clueless. I was all shattered and confused that why do I end up suffering, why can’t I control my mind, and above all why do people hurt me? But these 3 books came on my way as Google to me. Okay, I am very bad at jokes. I meant these books came as the answers to all the questions that I was searching everywhere. If you are someone who can relate to my story, you can read any of these 3 books. My personal favorite is The Power Of NOW which changed my life for good. So, if you are confused which one should you go for, The Power Of NOW is your answer🥰